Capturing the “Green Flash” in Marriage
We have had the lovely good fortune to have answered God’s call to serve him in Southern California, for most of our marriage living very near the ocean and now living on a boat on the ocean. If you have…
Tackling Transitions with Passion
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lZEqtNiho08 We got married because we love the way we interrupt each other's lives. To be sure, we share the same purpose of wanting to please God in our lives and help others have healthy relationships. We also have a…
Wow #5 Grab a Cup of Identity
My husband, Bill, loves his coffee. But along with Bill’s love of coffee, he also has a habit that could be very annoying, that is his aversion to get the coffee mugs into the dishwasher. I find coffee cups every…
Yummy!
A wife who is highly attractive, pleasing, especially delicious, ambrosial, tasty, appetizing, delectable, flavorful, luscious, mouthwatering, savory, scrumptious, and succulent. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. My grandmother said it—and yours likely did too. Nothing says “I adore you”…
What’s Ok With God?
In this over sexed and under loved world, people are looking for the real deal, the secret to lasting love with a vibrant sex life. Because of this pursuit for a purer passion, the most asked question we get when it comes…
KNOW MY MATE: Favorite things worksheet
Ask each other these questions (print two copies) What are your favorite things to: SMELL? (Try to get 3 preferred scents) SEE? (Try to find our 3 beautiful things your mate loves to SEE) TOUCH? (Try to…
Romance to the Rescue
I (Pam) love themed dates. In 10 Best Decisions a Couple Can Make, we share some ideas from our readers and audiences as well. Here are a few themes to consider: Always and Forever: One man wanted to comfort his…
Love Takes A Network : The Power of Friendship
“I have seen some great power in this “sistering” to help one another learn to love our husband wiser, better, stronger and more faithfully. You might be braver, more willing and able to follow through, if you have some accountability:…
Take T.I.M.E. For Love
How much time does it take to stay in love for a life time? In our book, Red Hot Monogamy, we explain the minimum time commitment we have seen necessary to maintain the connectedness needed for a healthy strong marriage (and a…
Give Him a K.I.S.S.
There is no real downside to becoming a more desirable wife. As a leader, you gain back the me you invest in romancing your man because a happy husband is a supportive husband -- and you become a kinder, nicer,…